RAISE A CONSCIOUS GENERATION

THE PRESENT STATE

Every parent wants the best for their child. The tussle between doing what is right and what will please the child is a daily struggle. Who defines what is right? Is a parent qualified through the mere fact that they are the parent, the adult, the party who has been alive longer? How can we allow our child to thrive in an atmosphere where they receive an essential education yet have space for their uniqueness to shine and contribute to the world?

Raising a child can be such an overwhelming responsibility that it is easy to get carried away in the physical duties and neglect the long-term impact our upbringing is having on our child. And years later we as parents find ourselves hopelessly wondering where our children picked up their negative traits from.

YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR INNER CHILD

We often acquire our parenting style from our childhood experiences. During the tender growing stage, the mind is like a blank disk, ready to record whatever comes across.As the mind is highly observant and equipped with unlimited memory, it records every minute detail – the kind of relationship the parents mutually share and how they interact with the world.

By the age of 7, your unconscious fully develops into a real child, and it stays in that format for the rest of your life, until as an adult you initiate a journey to change the negative conditioning. This child in us is ever-present and shows up in our behaviors daily. This inner child – our unconscious mind – is vulnerable, dependent, and in need of love and guidance. Through examining and repairing your bond with it, you will inevitably become a better parent and will raise your child to be a conscious individual in an unconscious world.

REPAIRING THE RELATIONSHIP

The inner child carries all our repressed emotions, past hurt, despair, and suffering. It is the dark side of our mind, which contains all our feelings of anger, unfulfilled desire and motivations, animal instincts, and all the madness within. We are afraid to face it, as we find it ugly, and are not willing to accept the negativity it brings with it. We have imposed all our insecurities and negativities upon it, and it has been hurt tremendously during the growing stage and is afraid to trust us again. The conscious mind is the parent, and the unconscious is the child; it is a very delicate relationship, and in any confrontation between them, the child eventually wins.

Start concentrating on what’s happening in your unconscious mind. You will be amazed to find out how much control this part of the mind has over you, your actions and your thoughts, the moment you start observing it. Every successful relationship is made up of love, trust, attention, and positive affirmations. Nurture your inner child and watch it transform your life. All the unconscious negativity that was ruling your life will be replaced with unconscious positivity. This is an eternal truth that has been documented in several famous books and is touted by many famous personalities as their secret to success. Spend time with your unconscious mind and recondition it to work for you.

STRENGTHENING THE PARENT-CHILD RELATIONSHIP

As individuals, the most fundamental thing we lack is awareness; especially when it comes to our behavior around our children. We get so caught up in our adult, ‘real-world’, problems that we lose awareness of what all our child is picking up. How many times have you heard your child repeat your classic phrases word-for-word and wonder in bewilderment where he/she picked that up from? We may laugh it off, but that action reveals the incredible amount of information that the unconscious mind of your child picks, the incredible amount of information that YOUR unconscious mind as a child picked. As you are unconsciously doing your acts, the child’s unconscious mind is recording them one by one. The computerized program is under preparation and will soon be ready to function for a lifetime, to control the child’s psyche, behavior patterns, and relationships in life.

It is futile to teach, lecture, or dictate your children as to how they should or shouldn’t behave. Just become what you want them to become, and they will follow you through personal example at a pace that is 10x greater. If you don’t want them to show anger, get rid of your own. Want that they should be more obedient? Become more obedient to yourself and your surroundings. Feel as if they lack concentration? Start concentrating on what’s happening in your unconscious mind.

Raising a child is a great blessing and responsibility. With all the troubles in the world today, let us put all our efforts in bringing up conscious and sensible individuals.

Gurdip Hari
Author | Healer | Health Reformer

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