Day - Today or Everday
Valentines day is considered
as a day made to celebrate love. It is a day which is widely
celebrated, and on this day Gift shops, Department stores
and Restaurants do great business. It is a day when lovers
look deep into each other's eyes, speak words that are not
very often spoken, and have some wonderful moments filled
with love, love and love.
the Next Day?
You get back to the
same old routine. No more celebrations, no more gifts or treats
until some other occasion comes, or in the worst case scenario,
until the next Valentines day. So what happens to love, what
happens to celebration, what happens to the wonderful ecstatic
feeling of looking deep into the eyes of your beloved, and
what happens to those wonderful moments filled with love,
love and love?
It is All
Yes, this is true, it
is all about Habits - that is what we all are. Everything
we do every day is all habitual, and so is Valentines day.
It is a habit that we celebrate love more on this day than
any other, it is also a habit that we do this once a year.
In other words, we are just like a Robot that has been programmed
to do things in a certain way. A Robot is a machine that has
no mind, no heart, no feelings, and obviously no love. Have
you ever realized that following a certain pattern of fixed
habits has turned you into a Robot? So where is the mind,
where is the heart, and where is the love, which all are the
essential elements of the real you.
Change This Habit
To realize that everything you do is habitual is the first
step, and to change the habit of celebrating Valentines once
a year, like a Robot, is the second step. The power of change
is the greatest force that is lying, perhaps dormant, within
you. All you need to do it to wake it up, and to do that you
first need to realize who you truly are. The truth is, you
are nothing but Love, the Spirit or the Soul, whatever you
may call it, is nothing but Love. You may have often heard
some folks say - God is Love and Love is God, and you were
created in that very image of Love. And on Valentines day
you actually become what you truly are, and then you express,
behave and do things according to your real nature. When you
look deep into your beloved's eyes, you are looking into their
soul and that is love looking into love, and when you speak
words that are not very often spoken, those are words of love
from soul to soul, and when you celebrate Valentines day,
it is the celebration of love.
Be What You Are Every day
You don't have to buy gifts every day for your beloved, because
the greatest gift anyone needs is the Gift of Love. When you
form a habit to be what you are, you will celebrate Valentines
every day as you will be constantly in that spirit of love,
in the spirit of who you really are. And then you will do
and say things that are filled with love. What bigger celebration
can there be than the celebration of love. Time is all that
you need to do this and time is all that you have. If you
can make it a Habit to give a little of your time every day
to your beloved and loved ones, that would be Valentines for
everyone. If such a habit turns you into a Robot of Love,
then so be it, as that would be the greatest and most Amazing
Robot on Earth.
So don't wait for another year to celebrate Valentines, be
what you truly are and celebrate that truth every day not
only with your beloved, but with all your loved ones'.
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