REASON, A SEASON, A LIFETIME
always come into your life for a reason, a season and a lifetime.
When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to
someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet
a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have
come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you
with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally,
or even spiritually. They may seem like a godsend to you,
and they are. They are there for a reason, you need them to
be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient
time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship
to an end. Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away.
Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire
fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has
been answered and it is now time to move on.
people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your
turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you
an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you
something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable
amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But only for a season.
And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season
relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things
you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway);
and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships
and areas in your life. It is said that love is blind but
friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being part of my
A. "Drew" Chalker